Having someone

If you are serios about stopping cutting then you should get a !!!!TRUSTWORTHY PERSON!!!!!!!!! I can not stress enough that they should be worthy of there trust.

In my case i had two people to help me through it. And it was pretty recent so they are still helping through this :)

My first go to person was Angie. She was a past cutter. When i first told her she slapped me hard. But her being mad at me made me feel better. She cared about me. After she cooled down a little she talked me threw it. Asked me the basic questions. (why did i do it) What did cut with) you know that basics. She talked me threw it. ((understand when you tell someone they might be mad. just let them adjust. telling an adult or teacher is a good idea. but friends are just as Good :))

My second person was Charley. He was a former cutter as well. He had a more sweeter approach. He told me to throw away my tools. And when i had urges to cut he told me to stay strong. "pains not the answer.." is my favorite quote by him. He also told me about when he was cutting and how he stopped. Music and friends were the ways he stayed strong and I'm trying to follow in his foot steps. He is a person i admire and look up to.

Having a friend and family member is a good way to stop. Find something that you like to do to keep you away from wanting to consume more pain.