Having someone

If you are serios about stopping cutting then you should get a !!!!TRUSTWORTHY PERSON!!!!!!!!! I can not stress enough that they should be worthy of there trust.

In my case i had two people to help me through it. And it was pretty recent so they are still helping through this :)

My first go to person was Angie. She was a past cutter. When i first told her she slapped me hard. But her being mad at me made me feel better. She cared about me. After she cooled down a little she talked me threw it. Asked me the basic questions. (why did i do it) What did cut with) you know that basics. She talked me threw it. ((understand when you tell someone they might be mad. just let them adjust. telling an adult or teacher is a good idea. but friends are just as Good :))

My second person was Charley. He was a former cutter as well. He had a more sweeter approach. He told me to throw away my tools. And when i had urges to cut he told me to stay strong. "pains not the answer.." is my favorite quote by him. He also told me about when he was cutting and how he stopped. Music and friends were the ways he stayed strong and I'm trying to follow in his foot steps. He is a person i admire and look up to.

Having a friend and family member is a good way to stop. Find something that you like to do to keep you away from wanting to consume more pain.

Feeling alone?

If you need someone who will listen.Or you nedd someone to talk to or you just need someone please contact me ((harli)) at

harli.paxton@sbcglobal.net

or angie ((read "in the beguining" to know who she is))

angie_marie1210@yahoo.com

You may contact us for any reason. Were open to suggestions and we will listen or we can just talk.


Both of us are willing to go to any length to get you what you reserch, help whatever you need.

in the beginging

I cant rember when i started. But i know why

When i got into 7th grade i had a friend who happened to be in 8th. She cut. Angie showed me her arm in wich was full of red lines that went horizataly and deep white scars. It was painful to look at them. I got chills if i stared at her arm for to long. I loved Angie and didnt want her to cuase pain to her self. I hated to think about it. I told her to stop multiple times but she wouldnt. Even though she said she would she wouldnt. A few weeks later Another friend came to show me that she cut her self to. It was very overwhelmiing. i told her tot stopp too. After that i got extremely depressed. Not becuase of them but becuase of some other things. The feelings of lonleyness, emtyness, frustration and anger filled my blood. I refused to eat and had nightmeres. I just wasn't happy. I rembered how my friends cut. So that night i took a saftey pin and tore threw my skin.

Thats when it started.